Pain!
Pain is my
closest companion. It has been my constantly with me for all of my long life. I
can’t imagine life without it, even if I try as hard as I can. People believe
that after death there is another form of existence, in the kingdom of God, and
there- will be no pain. I can’t imagine how I could exist without pain or the
fear of pain. Would I be able to enjoy existence without pain? What will be
there if there is no pain? Enjoyment is the product of contrast.
I had my
first surgery when I was a one-year-old. I can’t remember it but later I had the
same surgery again so I know what it is like. A lot of pain. As far as I can
remember there was always a pain. Accidents, health issues, toothaches, and
punishment. In my childhood teaching was done with the rod and I remember it
clearly. The memory of being subjected to corporal punishment is more vivid in
my mind than all else. I will spare you the gory details but try to imagine the
worst and then double it.
Now I live
with chronic pain, the results of a surgery that didn’t work out as expected (I
took a chance) and can’t be corrected. I believe that I am addicted to my
subscribed treatments and I fear life without it. I know others in that
predicament and I wonder. Could the pain be around for nonphysical reasons? I
have investigated a phenomenon called the placebo effect and it works both
positively and negatively.
Sir Winston
Churchill wrote in his book Young Winston about him and his classmates being
caned for not behaving in school. It was one of the worst experiences that the
old statesman could remember. In some countries even today the court can
sentence people to lashes, whippings, and canings. It was not long ago that in
Great Britain they had the “rule of thumb.” A husband could not legally punish
his wife by beating her with a rod thicker than his thumb. Now we evolved and
are horrified when we hear about torture.
During the
cold war, we used to hear about the Communist countries using torture to punish
or extract information. Many stories about Nazi Germany discussed scenes of
torture and the West was portrayed as civilized since here we didn’t use torture.
The theory was that you can make a human confess to anything by administrating
pain, which is true. This changed in the US under President Bush’s
administration and was endorsed by presidential candidate Trump saying that he
will use a lot more than waterboarding. What we deemed to be civilized has
taken a step back.
We are all
aware of the culture of the Roman Empire thanks to our religious beliefs.
People went beyond all limits in an orgy which included crucifixions and being
entertained by watching innocent Christian families fed to hungry lions and
cheering their pain. The pain of others became the joy of some. Sadism and
masochism dominated a social order.
It is common
knowledge that the internet profits tremendously from porn. A big portion of
porn is depicting men physically abusing women and often inflicting pain. A
fair amount of literature has been devoted to supposedly consensual erotic
torturing of women. There is a very famous Talk Show Host on trial who
apparently caused pain to women for his sexual pleasure.
Without
pain, humans and other creatures don’t survive long. It is needed as a warning
system but it's not welcomed since it reminds us about death. We are a society
which makes futile efforts to avoid death yet never wins the fight. As far as I
know, most people die in hospitals while professionals try to save their lives.
My
experience and longtime interest indicate that pain often is connected to
psychological reasons. I maintain that the physical follows the non-material
and not the other way around. It is hard to explain but easy to investigate and
prove. A human has unresolved issues in life and soon develops a sickness and
pain. Let me demonstrate.
I was
immobilized in a hospital bed next to a wonderful elderly lady who had a
history of severe pain and numerous hospitalizations. She was crying so I
gently inquired. I have a little house she told me and a little pension that
keeps me. She makes native artwork out of beads. My kids and grandkids come to
visit me often she said and I love them, but they stay long and mess all my
things up and I can’t fix it. The only time it doesn’t happen is when I am sick
or in the hospital. She had very real health issues but the reason for the
illness could be traced to her environment.
I think that
many of our illnesses and pains are a response to some situations which we
can’t deal with. Our medical system is designed to deal with the symptoms not
the causes of the symptoms.
Personally,
I only know life with pain and find it hard to believe that some people live
without it. I abhor those who inflict pain as punishment, as a way to force
others to do things, or as a way to receive sexual gratification. In my
reality, the worst people are those who subject many others to pain, sickness
or painful poverty, for self-gain. Sickness and pain are often the consequence
of other problems and I recommend early intervention by exercising a “love your
neighbor as yourself” attitude throughout life. We had the cure which is love
and caring for two thousand years but failed to use it. It’s a good time to
reevaluate.
Please
note: I welcome comments, arguments, and additional information privately and
publicly.
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